when i am spanked and have been spanked/given out spankings, being totally blind i really find it special i feel a closeness and a real bond with the thing i am using/being used on me, i think its cause i use my hands to tuch it cause i cant use my eyes. i always say or get the person to say thanks by kissing the slipper/cane/hairbrush/belt/flip-flop/cane/paddle/riding crop/wooden spoon afterwards. anyone else feel like this or is this just a blindy thing lol!