thelastcaress
13-03-2011, 01:43 PM
Hello
Has anyone else been hassled by folks on here? I refused to meet a person a while back on the grounds that he wanted sexual stuff as well as giving me a hiding and i've had nothing but pm's from different names all of which were seemingly new members, ie they only had 1 post on their tags, all claiming to have been given my name from others that know me.
I've blocked them all but obviously he just keeps changing his name and signing up again. I have a feeling it's the same guy that i refused to meet before but no proof obviously.
Also has anybody ever felt a little scared by pms they've recieved? It was suggested to me that i'm the sort of person who enjoys being verbally abused. It's weird because word play can be a big thing for me but only ever in the context of getting punished ifyou see what i mean. I got called a 'rent boy' and a 'taker' which i actually found quite upsetting. What do you do when someone goes too far?
I mean if i'm in trouble and getting told off i'd expect to hear things i didn't want to hear but what happens when it's no longer part of the role and simply becomes abuse. I can honestly say i've never stood in front of a teacher or something and been called viscious names, not like that anyway.
I guess what i'm asking is can subs have an opinion on anything or is it fair to assume that a Dom has overall authority in what they say to you.
tlc
Has anyone else been hassled by folks on here? I refused to meet a person a while back on the grounds that he wanted sexual stuff as well as giving me a hiding and i've had nothing but pm's from different names all of which were seemingly new members, ie they only had 1 post on their tags, all claiming to have been given my name from others that know me.
I've blocked them all but obviously he just keeps changing his name and signing up again. I have a feeling it's the same guy that i refused to meet before but no proof obviously.
Also has anybody ever felt a little scared by pms they've recieved? It was suggested to me that i'm the sort of person who enjoys being verbally abused. It's weird because word play can be a big thing for me but only ever in the context of getting punished ifyou see what i mean. I got called a 'rent boy' and a 'taker' which i actually found quite upsetting. What do you do when someone goes too far?
I mean if i'm in trouble and getting told off i'd expect to hear things i didn't want to hear but what happens when it's no longer part of the role and simply becomes abuse. I can honestly say i've never stood in front of a teacher or something and been called viscious names, not like that anyway.
I guess what i'm asking is can subs have an opinion on anything or is it fair to assume that a Dom has overall authority in what they say to you.
tlc