where are all the ladies

**ChilternPete** · 29-08-2007, 01:40 PM

I think bigbum has the essence of the problem for most sites/groups, if a girl/lady sticks her head above the parapet, then she gets bombarded, so many stay in their safe havens and from my experience read quite carefully every word you say, before maybe responding.

Can not say I blame them, we just do not show enough patience.

Really what we should do is sit down and think about what we are asking someone to do, then just maybe we might understand the reluctance.

Some of the more experienced and outgoing ladies can handle the rubbish others can not and will therefore either not join or keep quiet when they so.

Show a patient, relaxed and friendly side and you may be surprised, but like most things in this world of ours, you need to work at it.

Just my 5 bobs worth (oh god yes i am that old lol)

Peter

**nud1111** · 07-09-2007, 07:27 AM

I still dont think I am the only male who like to be spanked by a lady. I still think ther are ladies who spank men.. Come on lets hear from you.

**adam** · 09-02-2008, 05:19 PM

You are not the only man who likes to be spanked by women. There seems to be a lack of dominant women in the circuit. As a young male, I could have been spanked by a man 100times over by now. Females who want to be spanked by men seem to come out the woodwork more often, but hardly any of them want to spank. Fm spanking seems to be a minority, the scene is dominated by Mf and Mm I feel. I don’t know how we can encourage the opposite sex. Most of them won’t come near me at the best of times!!!!

**Rovivor** · 13-02-2008, 04:52 PM

A lot of females know that us males realy enjoy spanking a female bottom, so a lot of females make us pay for it !! .... Rovivor.

**Uncle Bill** · 05-04-2008, 09:07 PM

Originally Posted by adam

Females who want to be spanked by men seem to come out the woodwork more often

I hardly think your turn of phrase will encourage many ladies to contact you - Just my honest opinion.

**Spankme42** · 07-04-2008, 09:05 AM

They've got us by the short and curlies!

(£200 p/h is average rate for Central london).

Personally, I prefer 'Sessions' which last up to 1.5 hours at no additional cost...

Happy Spanking!

Ps. Where are all the ladies? They're probably at a Spanking Party!

Originally Posted by Rovivor

A lot of females know that us males realy enjoy spanking a female bottom, so a lot of females make us pay for it !! .... Rovivor.

**adamf** · 15-04-2008, 05:54 PM

In my experience, there are very few ladies that will allow you to spank them for free.

Those into the scene who enjoy a good CP session realise their value and charge.

I have in the past paid money to spank ladies, and in the main its been worth every penny, but you won't find those ladies hanging around on the forums looking for men

**scholasticus** · 29-07-2008, 12:48 AM

I used to work in Spain teaching females mainly. These were Catholic females from decent families and always very polite. Even so, you'd be surprised. I had one mature female student who came to class in a large raincoat and we were quite alone. She took off the coat and was wearing the skimpiest, most daring costume you could imagine - totally inappropriate for the street. Besides it was raining outside. She sat down and crossed her long legs right in front of me as though everything was perfectly normal. I went red and didn't know where to look. I had a strong feeling the lady was submissive but also an exhibitionist. The kick, I guess, was to come to class dressed provocatively and watch the reaction.
These girls did definitely have sexual encounters sometimes with other women. I knew a Domme who told me lots of Spanish girls came to her and paid to be disciplined.

Originally Posted by adamf

In my experience, there are very few ladies that will allow you to spank them for free.

Those into the scene who enjoy a good CP session realise their value and charge.

I have in the past paid money to spank ladies, and in the main its been worth every penny, but you won't find those ladies hanging around on the forums looking for men

BerryBlack · 31-03-2009, 05:02 PM

Well, I'm here, but as ChilternPete says, we do get overwhelmed by the attention. It is flattering, but even with the handful of men I've met (out of the 50+ I chatted to last year) that I really want to meet and spank, I can't quite keep up with everybody and tend to have spells of quietness where I seem to be ignoring emails cos it gets too much. As it is, I have to get on with someone incredibly well and all but fancy them to enjoy spanking them, or letting them spank me, so I have turned a lot of guys down and have noticed a pattern in their personality and looks - they're cheeky, but charming, and slim. It's a bit of a bastard to meet someone, I guess, like it is with dating. I still haven't found my own holy grail of a romantic partner, though I have my pick of lovely boys to spank.

jennysub · 02-04-2009, 08:35 AM

There are some on here.

I am only in one persona, that of jenny of the can't get much lower 5th, but I do have two, the other being MsJenni who runs detention classes in london for errant girls, boys and "special girls" although I should add that has been infrequent of late due to social and research-related pressure. I would add that attendance at my detention classes is "fun, no fees" only but as others have said the moment I give notice of a forthcoming class I am inundated with applicants,