I don't know how many of us girlies there are on this site and what the male/female mix is - perhaps the admin boys and girls will know - but I shouldn't think it's 50/50 and so I would assume that were I responding to the female 'players' on the site I'd offer more than "like a spanking in bournemouth ?" (the most recent) or "I could arrange a two-up if that's your bag" (the one before) or "have big hands, love spanking, reply now" (a month ago) and "get over my knee and get what you deserve" (the week before that).

Those I have met up with, been spanked by, enjoyed the company of, have had wonderfully erotic times with (see my blog which I must update) have been those willing to make the effort to write at least something about themselves, about their interests and their lives, who have seemed to show some sort of interest in me, asking questions, listening to the answers and, as a result have gained my trust.

One-liners, however charged with horny testosterone they may be will not get my attention beyond a one-line reply - polite but not encouraging.

Thoughts?