I am a sane & careful 50yo Gay Top seeking younger Sub who is need of a realistic spanking using my hand, strap, tawse & paddle. I DO NOT use the cane, but I deliver a spanking over bare butt and otk. I am looking for a fit Sub who is not overweight and has a firm butt that will accept a moderate to hard spanking, although I respect your limits. I am based in Nth London close to tube and can accom during the day.