I suppose that however we are, we don't want to be labled! Even though I'm an unsuferable spankee that's only too keen to turn a cheek and get on with a consensual spanking for a needy bottom, in deepest Kent, UK this is no mereit mark.
However, I'm proud of my spanking needs, it's an itch I wwant scratched and I'm perfectly happy to spank otthers in the right way!